Yesterday at 10 a.m. I walked to the bank to do the deposit for work. As I was walking my phone rang...815-754- xxxx, which is almost always a school number. I thought perhaps Cassy telling me that she missed Caiden or some such thing. Instead it was the school nurse at the grade school that Brendon & Cody go to.
Brendon was in the office, crying, complaining that it felt like someone was squeezing his heart. So, I called Bob, told him to pick him up. Called the pediatrician who said to take him straight to the E.R.
When he got to the E.R. he was also complaining that he had shooting pain in his right arm (upper) and he was shallow breathing. They get us back into a room immediately, the nurse comes in, logs all the information, and hooks him up to the monitors.
As I'm watching the monitors his BP is 67/50 and his heart rythmns seems very "abnormal" from what you normally see on the screen....
1 and a half hours later the doctor walked into the room. He proceeds to listen to his heart and then say he's going to have an EKG and a chest x-ray done. At this point, Brendon's breathing and heart rythmns are looking normal.
After the tests are done he comes in and tells me that he looked over the tests and everything looked good. So, I asked for a copy of what had been on the monitor the entire time from the moment they hooked him up until that moment...he asked why...I said because his heart rhythmns did not look normal when he was first there. He then said that the heart rhythmns have nothing to do with the stenosis that Brendon has because the rhythmns show the electrical function of the heart and the stenosis is about the mechanical functions of the heart....so, I said then why would you do an EKG which is a test of the electrical pulses in the heart...he said that it was standard...
I proceeded to tell him that I didn't feel my son was given any kind of emergency care! He came in presenting with chest pain, shooting pain in his arm and shallow breathing and they took an hour and a half to look at him, which was about an 2.5 hours since the symptoms had started and were apparently resolving by the time he had gotten in there to see him.
I then asked why they hadn't done an ultrasound of the heart if the stenosis is mechanical and the ekg shows electrical function not mechanical function...he couldn't answer that question...then tried to psychoanalyze me saying "I think your frustration is because we don't know what caused this episode." I replied "No, my frustration is that you sit here telling me you did NO tests to distinguish what was happening to him and that you didn't bother to see a 9 year old, with a history of heart problems who presented in your ER with chest pains, shooting pains in his arms and shallow breathing until he sat in a room for 1.5 hours without any medical attention and then you sit here trying to b.s. me to get out of being held accountable for screwing up!"
He had nothing to say to that so I then told him that I'd be calling the administration the following day to complain about the care as they had no business billing me or my insurance for such pathetic, substandard care.
The poor discharge nurse was scared to death to come into the room. Not her fault, but the service there was horrible...then they said if he began having chest pains again that I should bring him back...I asked why, they said so we can care for him...I said "Like you did today? No thanks, I'll drive an hour and get him care elsewhere!"
So, it was a frustrating day!
Today we are off to Chemo and Brendon will be with us so that if his cardiologist can fit him in I can run over there with him today.
Have a blessed day!
